কুলাইতে পারি না
kulaite pari na
Provenance: Reviewed field-research record
Word class
expression / phrase
Lexical status
কুলানো verified; negative regional construction local
Recorded forms
কুলাইতে পারি না; কুলান যায় কুলাইতে পারতাম না
Research meaning — English
1. Being unable to keep up or make one’s strength/resources suffice under ageing, paid work and care demands. Being unable to keep up with previously abundant work requests, contrasted with current lack of work.
Research meaning — Bengali
1. বয়স, কাজ ও পরিচর্যার চাহিদা সামলানোর সামর্থ্য আর না মেলার ভাষা। আগে কাজের চাহিদা এত বেশি ছিল যে সব কাজ সামলানো যেত না—এখানে কুলাইতে না পারা সেই অর্থে এসেছে; পরে কাজ না থাকার সঙ্গে তার তুলনা।
What this research adds
Specifies insufficiency of practical capacity rather than only an internal feeling of distress. Adds a workload-abundance context to the indexed inadequacy/insufficient-capacity sense; it prevents every occurrence from being read as insufficient income alone.
الصلة بالصحة النفسية
Relevant assessment domains are descriptive only; no diagnosis is assigned. Assessment focus: stress and contextual distress. These are inquiry domains for the cited account, not diagnoses or interchangeable translations. This occurrence concerns livelihood conditions surrounding distress, not a report that work capacity declined through illness.
Safe messaging for media
- Use the expression in its stated context; do not present it as a diagnosis or universal translation.
- Avoid describing a person by a stigmatizing term unless the person self-identifies that way and the wording is necessary.
- For suicide-related coverage, avoid method detail, sensational headlines, and single-cause explanations; include help-seeking information.
- Link to this entry’s evidence limits and distinguish contributor wording from analyst interpretation.
Established meaning — English
1. To suffice or be adequate for a purpose. [CBLEX10] Definition/comparison applies to কুলাইতে পারি না. The local negative construction concerns limited care capacity; it does not by itself diagnose distress.
Established meaning — Bengali
1. কুলানো প্রয়োজন মেটানোর মতো যথেষ্ট বা উপযুক্ত হওয়া। [CBLEX10]
سياق الاستخدام
The surrounding interview also reports severe violence against the cared-for daughter; strain explains the speaker’s wording without justifying violence. An occupational comparison made during discussion of men’s and women’s earnings.
Learning from the accounts
Reported effects
Expressed wish for another care setting and relief. Competing clients reportedly argued that another person’s job had been done first; the speaker contrasts this with current absence of such work.
Attributed origins
No specific origin is established by the selected evidence. The inability concerned simultaneous demand for labor at the earlier workplace.
Variation and visualization
An account-specific usage; no shared private imagery is established. The construction covers demands exceeding available capacity as well as the already-indexed insufficiency of strength or resources; tense and complement determine the local reading.
ما هو غير مؤكد
The local negative construction concerns limited care capacity; it does not by itself diagnose distress. No cognitive impairment or inability to work should be inferred from this phrase in this paragraph.
Commonness and evidence limits
These are selected qualitative occurrences in supplied source files and versions. Repeated files or passages do not add independent testimony. Neither frequency in the population nor identical understanding or private imagery is established by these selections. One additional full-paragraph context in this review.
Relationships and comparison
These are scoped relationships from the research record, not claims of universal equivalence.
Synonyms and near-synonyms
No exact synonym established for the locally recorded expression. Related words and clinical comparisons are listed separately.
Antonyms and contrasts
No antonym established for this local use. Absence of illness, normality, obedience and recovery are not supplied as invented opposites.
Related terms
F30; F34 — linked concepts; not synonym claims.
Across languages
English: not enough / cannot manage — resources or capacity do not suffice limited comparison, not universal cultural equivalence. Analyst sense comparison, not an exact idiom equivalence. [CBLEX10]
অংশগ্রহণকারী: আর কুলাইতে পারি না। এ বয়সে কাম আর কুলান যায়? কই বনানী কই করাইল বস্তি যাওন লাগে আমার হাইট্টা হাইট্টা কাম করতে।
All evidence IDs: E1061; E1062; E1134; E1989; E1990
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