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হাল ছেড়ে দেওয়া

hal chhere deoa

Provenance: Reviewed field-research record

Word class

বাগধারা / verbal idiom

Lexical status

Figurative construction supported by dictionary example; recorded inflection retained.

Recorded forms

হাল ছেড়ে দিসে

Research meaning — English

To give up hope or effort after earlier treatment, as the worker describes a family concluding that the person will not improve (the source transcript, a source record).

Research meaning — Bengali

দীর্ঘদিন চিকিৎসা করানোর পর আর ভালো হবে না ভেবে চেষ্টা বা আশা ছেড়ে দেওয়া; এখানে এক পরিবারের অবস্থান স্বাস্থ্যকর্মী বর্ণনা করেন।

What this research adds

Distinct from the general claim in N052 that no treatment exists: here prior treatment and the later withdrawal of effort form a sequence.

Mental health connection

Analyst: separates a family’s change of expectation from a finding of medical irreversibility.

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Established meaning — English

Figurative হাল concerns hope/reliance; a construction with abandoning it is illustrated. [BCHWLEX03]

Established meaning — Bengali

রূপক হাল: আশা বা ভরসা; হাল ছাড়ার গঠন উদাহরণে আছে। [BCHWLEX03]

Context of use

Third-party account of a family with comparatively good resources; insufficient income is not asserted as the reason for this particular decision.

Learning from the accounts

Reported effects

The family is reported to leave the situation as it is after losing hope.

Attributed origins

The worker attributes the decision to earlier treatment that has not produced hoped-for improvement; records neither what treatment occurred nor clinical prognosis.

Variation and visualization

The dictionary attests figurative হাল and the construction in a negated literary example. It does not establish the precise historical source of the idiom or a shared mental picture of a boat.

What is uncertain

Cannot infer diagnosis, adequacy of previous treatment, universal incurability or clinically assessed hopelessness.

Commonness and evidence limits

Attested in the cited supplied source contexts; repeated versions and multiple paragraphs are not independent interviews. No population prevalence, community consensus, or shared private image is established.

Relationships and comparison

These are scoped relationships from the research record, not claims of universal equivalence.

Synonyms and near-synonyms

No exact local synonym established by the cited selections; related and dictionary-sense relationships are recorded separately.

Antonyms and contrasts

No exact local antonym established. Contextual contrasts do not establish a universal lexical opposite.

Across languages

The English local definition is an analyst gloss. A separately verified other-language counterpart is not established for this complete local expression.

অংশগ্রহণকারীঃ আসলে ওইযে বললাম, যে পাগল এরকম হইলে চিনি আরকি । তার আচরণ হলো, টিএনটির স্যাটেলাইটের দিকে থাকে, ফ্যামিলির অবস্থা ভালোই । ঐ ছেলেটাকে ছোটবেলায় অনেক চিকিৎসা করাইসে কিন্তু এখন হাল ছেড়ে দিসে যে ও আর ভালো হবেনা, ওই ছেলেটা যেটা করে, ও হচ্ছে রাস্তায় যাকেই দেখে কোনো এডাল্ট মেয়ে দেখলেই তার বউ, বাবার বয়সী কাউরে দেখলে ডাকে আব্বা, কাউরে দেখলেই এটা সেটা কিনে দিতে বলে, এটা সেটা খাওয়াইতে বলে, কাউরে সিগারেট, কাউরে রুটি, কাউরে জামা এরকম আরকি । অংশগ্রহণকারীঃ হ্যা ওরে তো আসলে চিকিৎসা করাইসে, লোকেরা বলে ওর ফ্যামিলিটা এতো ভালো ওর এই অবস্থা কেনো । ওদের কথা হচ্ছে, এরে চিকিৎসা করলে আর ভালো হবে না, ও এরকম ই থাকুক ।

All evidence IDs: E2027; E2028

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