বেয়াদবি
beyadobi
Provenance: Reviewed field-research record
Word class
বিশেষ্য / noun
Lexical status
Established social-evaluative noun; doubled দ in বেয়াদ্দবি is a recorded spelling.
Recorded forms
বেয়াদ্দবি
Research meaning — English
The speaker judges it disrespectful to ask a person known through training, in return, how many patients that person referred.
Research meaning — Bengali
প্রশিক্ষণে পরিচিত আরেকজনকে তিনি কত রোগী পাঠিয়েছেন তা পাল্টা জিজ্ঞাসা করাকে বক্তা অশোভন বা অসম্মানজনক মনে করেন।
What this research adds
Adds a social norm that restrains a question. This is more specific than the existing general ভদ্রতা entry and is not an insult directed at a patient.
Lien avec la santé mentale
May matter for elicitation and feedback because a person can withhold a question as a matter of manners.
Safe messaging for media
- Use the expression in its stated context; do not present it as a diagnosis or universal translation.
- Avoid describing a person by a stigmatizing term unless the person self-identifies that way and the wording is necessary.
- For suicide-related coverage, avoid method detail, sensational headlines, and single-cause explanations; include help-seeking information.
- Link to this entry’s evidence limits and distinguish contributor wording from analyst interpretation.
Established meaning — English
Discourtesy, insolence or disrespect. [BTHLEX11; BTHLEX12]
Established meaning — Bengali
শিষ্টাচার বা সৌজন্যের অভাব; অসম্মানজনক ব্যবহার। [BTHLEX11; BTHLEX12]
Contexte d'utilisation
A visit from someone connected to training and an exchange about referrals. Do not silently identify that person as a supervisor.
Learning from the accounts
Reported effects
The anticipated impropriety is given as the reason for not asking the reciprocal question, despite ordinary conversation continuing.
Attributed origins
The interview does not establish why he views the question as improper or what the other person’s formal rank is.
Variation and visualization
Standard বেয়াদবি / বেআদবি is lexically verified; বেয়াদ্দবি is the exact recorded form.
Ce qui reste incertain
No inference of fear, low confidence, social anxiety, an imposed hierarchy or actual mistreatment follows from this word alone.
Commonness and evidence limits
One explicit judgement in OCT05-a source record / NTFH08, not a general rule governing all referral workers.
Relationships and comparison
These are scoped relationships from the research record, not claims of universal equivalence.
Synonyms and near-synonyms
অভদ্রতা — Lack-of-manners sense.
Antonyms and contrasts
No exact local antonym established. Contextual contrasts do not establish a universal lexical opposite.
Across languages
English: disrespect / discourtesy — Conduct perceived as contrary to proper manners. The judgement belongs to this speaker; it does not prove a power relation. [BTHLEX12]
সাক্ষাৎকার গ্রহণকারীঃ উনারে জিজ্ঞেস করেন নাই,আপনি কয়জন পাঠাইলেন?
অংশগ্রহণকারীঃ এটা জিজ্ঞেস করি নাই । এটা জিজ্ঞাসা করে কেমনে,এটা জিজ্ঞাসা করলে বেয়াদ্দবি হইবো ।
All evidence IDs: E2219; E2220; E2221; E2222; E2223; E2224
Points de vue selon différents contextes
Les points de vue sont présentés côte à côte. Une ressemblance ne signifie pas une équivalence. Aucun point de vue ne parle au nom de toute une culture.